Friday, April 10, 2020

False Starts + Knowing Your Partner's Love Language



Today, I officially started listening to podcast marriage/relationship devotion. Why? Because it will help me understand God's message to my husband and I. Including our baby.

Today's topic is a FALSE START. This is the first time that I heard of this term. It simply means restoration of relationship was attempted but never succeeded. Example: Separation, third party, runaway husband/wife, etc.

For us couple, we have never reached this point yet. And praying that we never will! But I remember a huge fight that happened before that needs a restoration of our relationship. We are newly married. Hence, none of us doesn't want to lose that fight. We both stood our pride so high. It was always about winning.

But that same fight, made us realize that we are not enemies. We are a couple that God put together. Our relationship is more important than our pride. And that we swore in front of the Lord that we will stand strong in good times and bad times. God spoke to us.

And as we continue to still discover each other, this podcast for today said that we should know our partner's love language. I took the online test and my result was ACTS OF SERVICE. Meaning, getting help from doing household chores or taking care of the baby is more important to me than receiving gifts.

I made my husband answer the online test, too! And the result was the same. ACTS OF SERVICE is his love language as well. This only means that both of us need to help each other out. And by helping each other, we show our love to each other. Amazing! ❤️

It's important to know your partner's love language so you will know how to connect with him emotionally. With that, false starts can be prevented. Thank You Lord for the wisdom. #FalseStart #MarriageDevotion #Rejoice

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